One thing that we can all agree on is that breakups suck! Theyâre uncomfortable, messy and often very emotional. Getting over that once-so-special person can be difficult. As Taylor Swift explains it in her hit single âRedâ, âitâs like trying to remember someone you never met.â Even though itâs difficult, we try to convince ourselves that we have moved on and that weâre single-and-ready-to-mingle ⊠but then we hear that song on the radio or even the remnants of their name and weâre right back to square one! Although uncomfortable, this situation is natural and thereâs some signs you can look out for to determine if youâre ready to hit the dating scene again! Hereâs 13 signs that youâre NOT over your ex following a break up:
- You hear a song that reminds you of them and thereâs a sudden waterfall of emotions!Â
- Youâve become âthe crying friendâ - when the liquor hits, the tears pour!
- Whether a motivational quote or petty shot, youâre posting subliminal posts about them on social media!
- Your friends are sick of hearing about them.
- Youâre making up silly excuses to contact themÂ
- Your bring them up while meeting new people
- One night stand backfires
- When the liquor hits and the tears start pouring, so do the drunk text messages.
- Youâre looking for them at places you both used to go to like the gym or supermarket.
- Youâre still stalking their profile even though you unfollowed or blocked them on social media.Â
- Still have all of their gifts and donât plan on throwing them outÂ
- You canât watch any of the shows on Netflix that you watched together.
- You keep saying that âyou're over it,â but actions speak louder than words!
There you have it: thirteen signs that youâre very much NOT over your ex! If you read through all thirteen and you canât relate, itâs time to get back out there. Thereâs plenty of fish in the sea and a catch for you! However, if any of these signs are part of your daily routine, youâre probably not over your ex and should focus on loving the badass you are before meeting new people. As always, you can follow us on Instagram @thejubalshow and let us know how you knew that you were over your ex! Check out The Jubal Showâs Dirty Little Secret below!